Comments on: Guilt https://www.ihavecancer.ca/guilt/#utm_source=Source&utm_medium=Medium&utm_campaign=Campaign Why is there a lump in my chest? Sat, 04 Dec 2010 00:45:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Nancy Vonk https://www.ihavecancer.ca/guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-151 Nancy Vonk Mon, 09 Nov 2009 14:15:25 +0000 http://www.youritgroup.ca/blog/?p=322#comment-151 Oh Farokh, get in the groove. Being the center of the universe is the place to be. It's your turn. Everyone around you is taking over these small daily things without resentment, and do so just as you would for them if roles were reversed: without hesitation and certainly without judgment. Feel the love and accept this is how it should be. xxoo Oh Farokh, get in the groove. Being the center of the universe is the place to be. It’s your turn. Everyone around you is taking over these small daily things without resentment, and do so just as you would for them if roles were reversed: without hesitation and certainly without judgment. Feel the love and accept this is how it should be. xxoo

]]> By: Sohayla https://www.ihavecancer.ca/guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-150 Sohayla Sun, 08 Nov 2009 20:19:28 +0000 http://www.youritgroup.ca/blog/?p=322#comment-150 I am sure it is not easy, but you should not feel guilty. You have done so much for other in your life, and if anyone does anything for you is out of love. Just focus on yourself and your health! I am sure it is not easy, but you should not feel guilty. You have done so much for other in your life, and if anyone does anything for you is out of love. Just focus on yourself and your health!

]]> By: Barbara Monajem https://www.ihavecancer.ca/guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-149 Barbara Monajem Sat, 07 Nov 2009 15:45:15 +0000 http://www.youritgroup.ca/blog/?p=322#comment-149 Long ago, we had a customer who was paralyzed from mid-chest down. Someone brought him in in a wheelchair, and we would take the cash from his breast pocket and put the change back in. This guy had the most BEAUTIFUL vibes. And, after thinking about it, I decided it must be because he was resigned to his helplessness. Not that I think you should resign yourself, but at least don't beat yourself up. Derive what pleasure you can from being taken care of. And thanks for giving me so many laughs! Long ago, we had a customer who was paralyzed from mid-chest down. Someone brought him in in a wheelchair, and we would take the cash from his breast pocket and put the change back in.

This guy had the most BEAUTIFUL vibes. And, after thinking about it, I decided it must be because he was resigned to his helplessness.

Not that I think you should resign yourself, but at least don’t beat yourself up. Derive what pleasure you can from being taken care of.

And thanks for giving me so many laughs!

]]> By: gita https://www.ihavecancer.ca/guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-147 gita Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:16:09 +0000 http://www.youritgroup.ca/blog/?p=322#comment-147 farokh, your lack of guilt in previous situations was an inspiration to me, i hope you are able to leave this behind and be as blithe and carefree about being the centre of attention as you were able to be about what society would view as more serious transgressions. love, gita farokh, your lack of guilt in previous situations was an inspiration to me, i hope you are able to leave this behind and be as blithe and carefree about being the centre of attention as you were able to be about what society would view as more serious transgressions. love, gita

]]> By: sharon singer https://www.ihavecancer.ca/guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-144 sharon singer Fri, 06 Nov 2009 14:26:48 +0000 http://www.youritgroup.ca/blog/?p=322#comment-144 yeah, guilt sucks. smells a little like a bad cigar, come to think of it. sticks and lingers and undermines what is good. most of us squirm when it's all about us, even if some part wishes wishes wishes to be the centre of everyone's universe. also, it's so hard to listen deeply, know what we need, accept what is, and give in. oy. such a practice. thanks again for not skirting the darker undersides... you are making your way in such complicated territory. I can barely imagine. so much love to you. Sharon yeah, guilt sucks. smells a little like a bad cigar, come to think of it. sticks and lingers and undermines what is good. most of us squirm when it’s all about us, even if some part wishes wishes wishes to be the centre of everyone’s universe. also, it’s so hard to listen deeply, know what we need, accept what is, and give in. oy. such a practice. thanks again for not skirting the darker undersides… you are making your way in such complicated territory. I can barely imagine. so much love to you. Sharon

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